So almost two months ago my s/o relapsed and got kicked out of his house he then got arrested for being under the influence and we didn't know where he was for two days after that he went to a impatient program for 30 days then was sent out to a sober living he then got a job 3-4 days after being there then got kicked out for not returning in time that was last Saturday then lost his job last Monday and has been living in his car. I heard from him Friday night and nothing Saturday and nothing Sunday today I found out he has been arrested an hr and half away for drug possession again and got his car inpounded he only been out of the program for about 3 weeks and already using again.... I refuse to go pick him up 1st off its late and I m having bad sciatic nerve pain when siting in the car 2ed I feel if I help him he's just going to mess up again I m just tired off all this bs he needs to grow up but I feel bad and like I m being mean. What would you do if you were me, just wanting some options that's all.......giving up