Do you ladies think I'm being selfish not wanting Vistors at the hospital once Iv had my baby not due till October btw I want it to be just me my partner my 4 year old daughter and my dad just as he lives over 200 miles away and will be taking care of my 4 year old while I'm in hospital and he's also my grandads carer so can't stay away to long from him. Just woundering if anyone else has done this I just dnt want my daughter to feel pushed out when the new baby comes