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Julie • Full time mommy to 2 amazing little boys. A 3 year old and a baby born March 16th 2016 🍀
Apparently my whole family is all about baby girls. Well I'm a boy mom! I have two precious boys and I wouldn't trade them for the world! 
My brother's wife constantly shares pictures on Facebook and raves about her friends baby girl and pays zero attention to my boys. It's offensive. And my husband's brother just had a baby girl last night and everyone is raving how great it is to 'finally' have a girl in the family. My youngest is only 3 months old and they've never even made an effort to meet him. 
I'm heart broken and feel an ugly jealousy that makes me feel like a terrible person. 
Also during my last pregnancy I was pregnant w fraternal twins but lost the girl at 18 weeks. Our extended family doesn't know about the twin. I'm still struggling with the loss and now I feel like no one even cares about my precious baby boy and these negative emotions are destroying me. 
I'm in desperate need of some positive words.