Should I wait..?
A guy I've been talking to for over 2 years now, going on 3, is 19, while I'm only 16. (To me it's not a huge difference really because we both have the same maturity). A couple nights ago we just confessed to each other how we felt. I told him I've had a crush for a few months now, and he said he'd be lying if he didn't feel the same. He also said though, that he didn't really want to ruin our friendship by dating and that now wasn't the best time for it because he has a baby sister on the way literally like any day now. (Which I'm totally okay with). But the thing is, at the same time, I really really like this guy and I can't stop fantasizing about him (however silly that sounds) and I kind of want something a little more. We're both virgins and are pretty new to the whole "dating world" so I think maybe he's just scared to jump into something more? Or maybe me being 16 scares him a little and he wants to wait til I'm a little older? Or maybe he just freaked when I told him I liked him and he didn't want to hurt my feelings so he just said it back? I'm honestly head over heels for this guy and I don't really know what to do. So far we've just continued talking like we never said anything that night we confessed. Should I wait and see how it goes? Any advice?
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