Im 18 and my mom & dad are crazy. Okay.. So there's this guy.. And I've liked him ever since I was a little girl.. Ya know, like the kind you are instantly in love with and you wanna marry them even though you don't know them and you want them to like you SO SO SO SO much and you're basically like obsessed with them.. (I think we've all been there) if you haven't your lucky. Well this guy never liked me (he did from what he told me but he wasn't ready to have a girlfriend) so I waited a long long time and we're both 18 now .. He just turned 18 yesterday I turned 18 May 15th.. And we've been dating now for 2 months. We talked for years (literally) and we've known each other for basically our whole life so these 2 months have felt more like years. Anyways I had to give you the background history.. We're in love. He's my best friend my boyfriend and hopefully one day (soon) he'll be my husband. No negative comments about the husband thing.. But we've talked about getting married when we're 19 because he'll have a great job by then! Anyways.. Beside the point.. EVERYONE knew how crazy I was over this guy before we started dating.. Especially my mom & stepdad. And when we finally started dating well .. I was estatic! My mom has always ALWAYS sheltered me and kept me inside all the time and I've basically felt like I've lived in a prison ALL my life. When I was little I could never participate in sports (mostly because it affected my church schedules) but some sports didn't and I still didn't get too and she never let me go to my friends houses or when I met a new friend she would never let me go to their house before meeting anyone's parents.. Which is totally understandable.. But she never would go meet their parents!!! And even if I asked someone to spend the night over at my house it was still a no or maybe some other time or were busy or my house isn't perfectly cleaned or SOME stupid excuse so I grew up not getting to do anything. And the times she let me go some places. Which was very rare.. She would hold those times over my head and tell me that.. "I just went and did this and that with whoever" even though it was just a girl coming over for a couple hours which was like a year ago.. Anywho.. My mom is crazy. Well my stepdad doesn't care as much but he just has to go along with what she says or they fight so he does.. And I know he feels bad for me but there's nothing he can do.. Plus I hate getting him caught in the middle of our drama. So that's my mom. My dad on the other hand.. My real dad. (I don't live with him) he's more fun. We all go mudding and go places and hang out and I just have a more fun time at his house.. So before I had my boyfriend that I'm with now.. Last year I snuck out because I was so sick of living with my controlling mother and moved to my dads house. YES it was a big deal and it was included with so much drama. I lived there for a couple of months and I had fun all the time and life was better but I felt bad because I missed my mom and my siblings at my mom's and I missed going to church (my mom goes, my dad doesn't, and I didn't have a car at the time so I couldn't take myself) so I eventually moved back in with my mom.. For a couple weeks she was an angel.. We got along better and she was being more open to letting me go more places but she went back to her old ways and now everything is the same. BUT here's the thing about my dad.. Now that I've gotten older and I have my boyfriend.. Of course, I want to hang out with my boyfriend a lot.. I'm 18.. I've never gotten to do much all my life and I don't have a lot of friends.. Especially because he is my friend. But my dad doesn't like me constantly hanging out with guys. (He's the freak about guys) my mom doesn't care so much about the whole guy thing but she doesn't let me go that much places and my dad cares about the guy thing and let's me go places with girls or something so I'm caught in the middle of a big fat mess. My mom has been letting me see my boyfriend .. Some. But say it's a Monday & Tuesday.. If I see him on Monday and come home at 9:00. Tuesday I can't see him because she says I just saw him yesterday and we won't even be doing nothing for the whole day!! I'll just sit at home and he will sit at home and we will both be doing nothing but cant see each other and it's ridiculous!! I'm 18 years old. I'm not a child anymore. And I can't see him on Wednesday's because he works and Thursday's and Fridays he has to help his parents work on this barn they've been building and she may let me see him on a Saturday Or something and we see each other at church but it's not Ike we get to hang out there.. It's church not a social place. But I think it's all stupid because I'm not a bad girl I don't do anything bad and if I did I would understand why she does this but I'm not. And I come home when she tells me too.. I mean sometimes I'm like 5 minutes late but she doesn't care so that's not really a problem. And we don't do anything at my house ever so what's the point of sitting here all day. And when my dad calls and I happen to be with my boyfriend he's like "why are you always over there and I'm not but they both think that I don't need to "see him that much" when I don't even see him hardly at all. I mean even when my mom was dating my stepdad they saw each other every day!!! She would drag us all the way over to Mississippi to see him.. So she got to see her boyfriend everyday!? I mean she knows how it feels to be in love. And she even knows I have no friends basically because she won't let me see anyone so they all have their own friends now and I don't really care to have friends because I have bad experiences with best friends lying and all so I don't have friends that I just go hang out with all the time. I don't understand this. This isn't the only thing she does. She's very inconsiderate about anyone else but herself and she ALWAYS has to be in control. I've thought about moving in with my dad again.. But he's not gonna let me see my boyfriend at all (he bought me my car) so I can't piss him off. And my mom pays the insurance on it and my phone bill so I can't piss her off.. And I was gonna get this great job and try and get a roommate and move out in an apartment. Because I'm good at being independent and on my own and being responsible but I couldn't get a roommate so idk what to do I can't wait another year of being treated like a baby. I need help or advice or anything.