Response please!! I need love & affection lol any words of advice is welcome please!!!" Noones giving me feedback lol 😔

So here's some background info me & my bf met & dated in 2008-2010 I was 14 when we met & he was my first love we always stayed in contact etc but finally last year after my 1 & his 3kids Lol we ran into each other & rekindled our relationship so everything is okay & all but I feel I don't get shown any affection during sex he always wants me kissing on him & giving him head etc but doesn't return the favor as often as I would like him to but when he does is MINDBLOWING literally... in my opinion I'm a pretty girl & I'm use to my boyfriends being all over me especially during sex with that being said I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore or something I spoke on it once & he said he wouldn't be with me if he wasn't attracted to me etc etc hes just not into all that nd he feels like that doesn't determine love which I guess he's right but when he first got back together I was getting kisses every time we left each other and all that good stuff now it's just like bye you know? Am I just being a spoiled brat or should I bring up the topic again any words of advice is welcome please!