OB rant 😡

Sindy
So I went in for my 4 week appt on Friday and left very emotionally pissed!!! I got a call from them like 2 weeks ago saying that my pap came back abnormal (which I knew it would already) they told me I needed a colposcopy which I kindly declined and said I would talk to the doctor at my next appt and I would explain why I rather wait for baby to be born. I go in Friday and they have me scheduled to have the procedure so the doctor comes in and I explained that the reason for me to not want it done until baby was born was because last November I had a miscarriage literally a day after I got a Pap smear so I was traumatized and didn't want anything to be done because either way I've had abnormal paps for a while now with no progression so didn't feel the need to rush anything. So he starts telling me that he doesn't want to get sued and that he needs his job and needs to feed his family and if I wanted to decline that I could go elsewhere and that either way they had plenty of patients as if saying I was just one more whatever patient there. I was sooooooooo mad, & I feel like because I'm 20 weeks pregnant it's too late for me to go anywhere else smh 😡😡😡Â