2nd child

Tiffany
My first child would be two when this one is due. 
I do not want to know the gender of the baby until it comes out. 
With that being said I have reason to have each but I'm torn between which I would like to do. 
Baby shower 
Diaper and wipes party 
Welcome party
Nothing just have my baby and enjoy life who gives give who don't we love them anyway.