We got married in December and immediately got a puppy. 3 months later we got a second one and we've been trying to conceive this whole time. Honestly I think it's almost better to get one now, that way it will be house trained by the time a baby comes and you won't have to worry about it. Our first dog took about 9 weeks to get potty trained and the second only took 3 weeks. Everyday they get better and better behaved so I know we'll be fine to add an addition to our little family 😉My brother tried a puppy RIGHT after they had their third baby and the dog only lasted 3 days because his wife got so overwhelmed. But right now I don't have any kids (though I want them!) and could focus on training the puppies so I'll have less to worry about when a baby comes. It is important to socialize them with young children though because you'll have an infant in the house. Taking them for walks around playgrounds can help because you're bound to have kids come up and pet the puppy. I also found having two young creatures in the house a great test of my patience ... Being woken up all night, cleaning up poop, pee, and vomit constantly (inside the house and out). I nearly went crazy the first week we had both! But I'm glad I've had the experience and feel much more confident that I'm better prepared to handle the greater responsibility of a child. Also, I'm planning on playing baby cries while I'm pregnant to get them used to the noise. I've read the best way is to Play the cries while the dog is eating or something else they enjoy so they begin to associate it with positive experiences. If you keep up with it they shouldn't be too shocked once a real baby comes home :) the last thing you want is a dog barking when a baby is crying. That's sure to drive you insane! and jealousy can be an issue too, I haven't read up on ways to prevent that yet, but I suggest you do, just to be prepared!
Getting a puppy
I've always wanted a dog and children. My husband and I are stable and have the money and space for a pet but we are unsure if it's a bad idea to get a puppy while trying to conceive.
My parents want a pet as well. However, we live in Canada and they go to Florida for 2 months every winter. So they have decided not to get a dog but are really excited about the prospect of pet sitting for us. So, I know the dog would have company during the day. I'm just wondering is it okay to have a young dog and a baby?
I would never want to be the type of people who get rid of a pet once they have a baby. I know there are exceptional circumstances but I've known a few people who have seemed to use a pet just as a temporary baby substitute.
Any thoughts on the timing of getting a pet when trying to conceive? Any personal experiences where this worked well or didn't?
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