So upset !!!!!

So we have been trying for about 9 monthes. After my miscariage last fall.  And nothing  well I'm very irregular 45-55 cycles (going to the doctor to get checked next week) well anyway decided to take a couple monthes off from trying. To just have fun and see what happens no tracking anything.  Well anyways. My friend who has this "fuck buddy". She forgot to take a couple days of birth control. She is now pregnant ...she told me she's getting an abortion .....mind u she got pregnant last year gave it up for adoption   .....I told her she should do the same thing or I'll take the baby she told me no she doesn't want to go through the pregnancy .....  What u ladies think am I wrong for being mad at her ?