Would you be upset?

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So long story short.

My SO and I have been together 7 years, no interest in marriage. 
We have been ttc for about 2 years with 3 miscarriages, when about a month ago I find out it could be due to my thyroid so we decided to put off ttc for two to three months so I can get regular with my meds and be healthier.

There was a wedding Saturday and I had never been drunk before so I figured why not. My SO was the DD so I was good in all aspects.

Well when we got home we had sex, I figured he'd put on a condom and pull out. Well, he didn't do either.

So I'm kinda pissed off because it was my peek day and he knew that too.

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It's both of your faults, you both should have been more careful

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Both of you had sex, you're both responsible

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I wouldn't be mad. If you were TTC & ended up pregnant this time then I would take that as a blessing.

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I wouldn't be too mad because you had been ttc for a long time so if you did get pregnant, it wouldn't be a bad thing.

Not like it was a one night stand.

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He could have just forgot. You've been trying so long he probably got used to it and since you didn't say anything about a condom it just happened.

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I'd be pissed if it ended up in another miscarriage because of his "mistake". He was sober, you were drunk.

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Are you seriously mad about that?  If you get pregnant, it's a good thing. So what if it happens a couple of months early?  You can still get on your meds and be healthy.

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Were you too drunk to consent?

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Ttc is hard and for all you know you could conceive and carry to term, but it's unlikely just by the odds. I wouldn't have been pissed at all, but I'm a "what happens, happens" type person.

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I'm pretty sure that I saw your later posted about how you almost died and what not while TTC because of it and everyone said it was your fault... Ignore this stupid ignorant people. You have evey right to be mad...💗

Would you be upset?

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