Be nice please

Kelcie
Ok so please no judgment.... my next appointment ill be aprox..38+4 my oldest daughter is going to be leaving for a week right around my due date its a custody thing she is very upset if she can't be there to meet her sister right away other than having to wait a week...she is six and a brain cancer survivor she loves to be invovled in everything (she will not be in the room tho she has been threw enough i feel that would traumatize her a bit) but will be one of the first to hold her sister I want her to be there just as badly as she wants to be....if my doctor actually agrees would it be to selfish of me to ask for a sweep? Or to be induced? Or to ask for other options to get things started with my doctors blessing of course?? I'm at a loss right now..what are some things I can do to mayb help progress a little faster...