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So Saturday I thought I could trust my boyfriend not to take advantage of my drunken state, I had to be carried into the house and bathed after we had sex. I could not consent. He was sober.

About three weeks ago I was put on a thyroid medication that would increase my chances of keeping a baby. Before this medication my chances were 3-7% of a successful pregnancy.

But I'd have to be on this medication at least 3 months to get it regular in my system.

He knew all of this.

He came in me when we agreed to use a condom for the months that we werent trying so I could get on a medication that would decrease my chances of miscarriage after my third one, he had been using a condom for almost a month so he knew that we were using condoms.

That and the fact that he said during, "I am going to cum in you this time."

My health is put at risk everytime we would have sex without protection. As in miscarriages that had me pass golf ball sized clots, hospitalizing me all three times. He knew this.

Yet, when I posted on here about if I should be mad, I was blamed, I should have communicated that he should have worn a condom. I didn't even know how to swallow water.

I thought I could trust my boyfriend of 7 years. This was my first time drinking. Ever.

This is what victim blaming is.

I have since broken up with him and taken plan b.

Thanks glow community sooo much for your concern.

No I am mad that I was blamed for not telling him to wear a condom when I couldn't talk in the first place.

I've already delt with my anger towards him.

I don't want any other women thinking that it was there fault by how glow users determine who is to blame.