when giving birth..

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I've thought about it I don't want my boyfriends mom in the room. But it's her first grandchild so am I being rude?? Should she be allowed in the room? I want my mom there though.

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It annoys me that anyone besides the SO thinks they have a right to be in the room. If you want them in there, awesome! They should feel honored. But no one should EXPECT to be in there. Grrrr, sorry, I just hate that you and other Mommas are feeling guilty. Your labor shouldn't be about other people.

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No that's your choice. I would not feel comfortable with my boyfriends mum seeing me in labour.

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It's your choice. Period. I want my hubby and my mom, but NOT my MIL. I think my hubby was upset at first, but when I explained it was because she stresses me out and it's not about her, he understood. It's your decision, end of story.

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Nope, not rude at all. She might not agree ;) but it's totally normal and reasonable to want your mom there but not your partner's mom.

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I think it depends on what your BF thinks. If it means as much to him that she is there as it does to have your mom, then I think you should consider it, maybe with certain restrictions. But if it makes no difference to him, then nope, it's your body and your decision.

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Its totally up to you but i doesn't seem fair to him if his mom cant be there but yours can... Im not having my mil in the room but thats because neither my husband or i talk to her

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Not at all. Do what makes you comfortable! You're the one giving birth, not you SO or her lol.

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I am in the same boat. I don't want my MIL in the room with me. I'm afraid of hurting her feelings. She is very sensitive.

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I don't think it's fair to have your mom and not his. Maybe opt for just you and your bf. Then grandma's can come in once baby has arrived.

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My boyfriends mom isn't gonna be in the room. But my mom is. She understands why too. It's just a little strange. Just try and explain. It's your choice though.

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