Second c-section??

Cristal
My first birth experience was a nightmare, I spent two days labouring and only got to 4cm despite being given drugs to help progress. Long story short my sons heart rate took a massive dip and I was rushed into surgery. And it turns out he was stuck. Now 34 weeks with my 2nd and because of my gestational diabetes my baby is looking like he's going to be a big boy he's also been transverse now for a few weeks. It's looking like a section but I have so much anxiety about it booking a date. I was scared the first time around. Is anyone going in for their second section? Or had one already? What was it like after? The healing process etc
Thanks