My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and I have given him head many times, and I recently lost my virginity to him and he didn't even come then. It makes me feel insecure and like I'm doing something wrong. Every other guy I have been with have come in probably less than 10mins. What am I doing wrong??? What should I do about it? I confronted him and asked why he never came, he said because I wasn't good enough, He was joking around but it still made me think, he also told his friends that no girls have ever finished a blow job with him. What do I dooo ugh