Feeling abit down!

So since I have got married it feels like non of my friends can be asked to make an effort with me. I just feel like if I don't contact them then I won't hear or see them. I'm a big softy & this really gets to me because I want to see them & have girly evenings but it feels like they just can't be bothered with me now that all the excitement is over. I just think once I'm pregnant they will all bother again! Its only one group of friends this is happening with but i have other friends that do make the effort with me. I just don't know what to do anymore.