A reverse-view threesome post

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But I am curious WHY couples seek out people for threesomes. 

I am habitually single, so I get "invited"... Often. Some days it's a compliment, other days it hits me hard emotionally. At the end of the day I'll just go home to my empty bed type of deal. Or feeling like how I cannot find a boyfriend and feeling people and couples are now viewing me as someone to have sex with, only. It just depends on how hard my loneliness is bothering me.

Some invitations I've reallllllly considered, while others was a definite and defiant no thanks, for various reasons (like their argument history, their health, etc). 

I also am not sure of my sexuality. IF I am bisexual I feel like it's a small percentage. Not the typical 50/50. Have I kissed women? Yes. Women have also gave me oral. I've never "returned the favor", though. I don't know if I would enjoy it. And I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by suddenly stopping, but I also don't wanna be stuck doing something sexual i realized I don't wanna do.

I just wanna know what goes on behind the scenes with the process of "let's call ____ and ask her to join", basically. 

🌟 & just to preface: even if I get a ton of comments that are positive experiences, I'll still be in my own little awkward "I might want to, but I probably NEVER will" situation. Same with figuring out my sexuality. So don't come at me hard if you're anti-group sex. I'm just curious about what happens in the COUPLE'S lives that make them pick their 3rd player. I just wanna know if I should take it positively or negatively, and how to handle the friendship after an invitation.