WARNING PITY PARTY ALERT ;)

So it took 2 years to conceive my first son (I'm gonna apologize in advance for my whining but it needs to go somewhere) we decided November 2015 to try for baby #2 got excited in may with a bfp only to miscarry right after we found out. Then AF decides to fuck with me by being late only to crush my soul days later, with baby #1 we had sex practically constantly now I'm lucky to get it 4 times a month. So if it took 2 years of constant sex how long is it gonna take this time? 4? 6? Sorry to lay my pity party down on y'all but my husband is whatever about it and can't understand my struggle