Scared to be on top? Don't know if I'll do it right

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My partner is significantly older than me and we've had sex plenty of times but I wanna try on top but I'm really scared. I have no idea how with the motion and i don't want him to think idk what I'm doing. Plus he's very well endowed and still hurts a little bit... Help? Or other positions for body self conscious women?? Thanks !!!!!!

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Have him put his hands on your hips so he can kind of guide you. It might be awkward at first but you find what works best for you. You can grind on him, go up and down, in circles. You can get closer to him and he can suck on your breasts, or you can be upright and he can play with them. If you're too self concious to face him at first, you can do it backwards or keep your bra on. There's a lot of possibilities and it can help you let go of some of your insecurities since you get most of the control. Good luck, have fun with it!

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Watch Season 1 of Game of Thrones.

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When im on top, my husband holds my hands so i have something to support myself with. Usually i will grind back and forth, up and down, and swivel my hips back n forth. Wvery once in a while, stop the motion, and let him go all the way inside of you and then lean back. Dont try to thrust or anything, just lean back and put his hand on your clit and ask him to rub. This is for you!! It feels soooooooo goooood!! His dick will be pushing on your g spot and the clitoral stimulation feels amazing while thats happening

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Watch a porn video with a girl on top. There are ways to move up and down and rock your hips that'll be pleasurable for both of you.

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The thing my husband likes the best on top is just popping my ass . Like get on top of him hands and knees , lean more on one side of his body and pop your ass like you are dancing. You can also be on top of him and lean back (grabbing his legs) put your feet on the bed and do a up and down motion. That way he can see everything and can rub your clit . Or you can do reverse that way he can't see your face if you're scared or its your first time on top. I did that a lot at first. I didn't really like the eye contact but to him it's sexy . Or ( my personal favorite ) if you an do the splits get on top of him facing away from him on foot by/ towardhis head one by / toward his feet . And pop your butt my husband goes CRAZY . Let me know if you need more detail and how it goes if you try it !

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Just do what feels good! The great thing about being on top is the fact that you control the angle and how far in you go, so size shouldn't be an issue unless he's too thick.
I really like to tease the both of us by just having his penis in a little and moving around like that, then intermittently going deeper. Feels really good and mixes it up.
You'll find your rhythm, don't worry about it! In the end we're all animals and know instinctively what to do most of the time :p.

Scared to be on top? Don't know if I'll do it right

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