Bleeding out of the front

Does this happen to anyone else? Pads that I get are always longer in the back, and every girl that I know says that she bleeds out of the back (most of them say especially at night) and need it longer in the back. Am I the only one who bleeds out of the front and stains the front of my underwear??? The sides as well, the flaps on the pads that I get are never wide enough, and I'll always bleed out of the front and onto the sides, so like up and to the side. Ugh. Does anyone else deal with this? If so, what do you do? And any pad suggestions? (Don't suggest tampons or cups, I only use pads)