Would you say anything?

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What would you do if you caught your husband trying to flirt with another married woman on fbook? It was in his personal messages and before I could screen shot them he deleted it.

I would just like to add we have had problems before NOT WITH CHEATING he has never cheated on me but he has a tendency to be overly nice to women he's always been that way and it bothers me. But I have seen him and it's always in direct messaging him complementing or trying to make other women feel better about them selves I hate it. For example telling them they are beautiful never anything like meeting up.

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So you were already snooping in his messages? Trust is so important! If it's already been violated causing you to feel the need to snoop, then you and your husband need to seek help! Go to counseling, see where things are and try to rebuild. It doesn't matter if he's flirting/cheating/or being 100% faithful if you don't have any trust then what is the point?

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Uhh yes if he's aready looking outside the relationship. That's a red flag of course bring it up but instead of blowing up sit down and talk ask what's the issues and how can you both work on them to keep each other happy. That way if it the future it still goes sour at least u know u tried

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So pretty much just keep an eye out

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I wouldn't say anything yet I would just be mindful of anything else that leads you to think he is anything les than faithful

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Ask him what's up

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I'd set up a fake account and message him saying its her and her old account was deactivated for some reason. Be real flirty with the messages and ask when hes available to meet up. Try arrange a meeting only when he turns up so do you and bang youve got him red handed! Then tell her husband too. Screen shot all messages for proof. And keep quiet for now.as hard as it is act normol to him as if youve no idea or inkiling somethings up. Trust me being quiet now and playing him at his game will be better for you in the long run as youll catch him red handed. You could possibly set up the account in her name and if he asks why its different say you added privacy settings of course as you dont wish to be too careful.

Would you say anything?

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