RANT- About my sucky sex life and stuff

Since when do a pair of 23 year olds barely have sex?! Lucky if I get it more then once a week! Seriously this month i have had sex 4 times so far, will i have sex again before the month is up? I honestly don't know! There is absoloutely no physocal issues preventing us having sex, I'm even losing weight and getting fitter and looking better, we are actually suppesed to be TTC! Supposed to be......This isn't even from my lack of wanting sex, i want it all the time! I don't get it, months ago we discussed that we need to have more sex because we just weren't doing it enough, and he's the one who initiated that convo, yet he's not following through! Seriously for 3 days I've been trying to get sex out of him, 3 effing day's, Monday i got into bed with him and was trying to initiate it a little bit but he went hard, then soft and almost fell asleep so i gave up, he promised we could the next day he was just to tired. Tuesday night i hopped in the shower with him (i'd already had a shower earlier so didn't need one) and he said not tonight i promise tomorrow night AND I'll give you a nice relaxing bath to unwind with. Wednesday evening rolls around, I'm wearing my sexiest undergarments, he gets home he hadn't bought anything like chocolates and wine for my bath, i mention we need more nappies for our toddler expectong he was planning to run back out, instead he sends me out to the shops to get dinner and the nappies, and then proceeds to ask me when i want my bath like today or tomorrow etc to which i replied well not today because it needs to be made worth-while and luxurious. He started playing World of Warcraft (WoW) as soon as he got home because a new patch that i took time and data of my phone to download earlier on, had just hit? I get our toddler off to bed later on then come out toppless with my sexy bra on and he said, IF you re-learn your toons(the patch has changed a lot on game play, and yes i play WoW too) then we will have sex!!! Literally giving me a condition/quota to meet in order to have sex! I'm like okay, i jump on my computer log one of my 100s and because he has his headphones on talking to some chick he is friend's with, and could barely hear me i try to solo relearn everything, which was mighty difficult because some parts like selecting talents i always had him guide me through, so I'm almost certain i royally fucked one of my top 3 toons, so pissed off that he was talking to some bitch on Ventrillo for WoW and not helping me out (our computers are set up so close to eachother just facing back to back sort of thing) i logged out and headed to bed because i was tired anyways, took of my sexy bra tossed my hair in a bun and went to bed. Also you know what, this always fucking happens, he always meets a girl on WoW and starts talking to her more then me and prioritising her more then me, and even talking to them about his sister (who died 14 years ago to leukemia) and our first son Sam (stillborn) and opening up to them when he doesn't even talk to ME about this stuff! this is the 3rd time in our 6.5 year's together that i have felt less important then some internet hoe who constantly whinges about her partner to my fiancé, and always seems to avoid playing with me, it has been worse one of them he full flirted with and was chatting to claiming he was bored while sitting in a corner across the room from me while i was 8cm dialated giving birth to our living son! Yes i did tell him i was unimpressed tonight and listed all the reason's i wanted him to sleep on the couch. Anyways it's Thursday now, don't believe for one second I'm having sex today mainly because i don't even want it now, i can only handle so much rejection before the thoughts of "am i not attractive enough" and my self esteem gets a dent in it. Seriously i feel like if he can't get horny and want to do me at least a couple times a week there has to be something wrong with how i look :( just over the no sex and the very little indication of attractedness and the promises he breaks.