So one of my fiancé's friends told him (my fiancé) that he didn't think our engagement was real, even though it was posted everywhere with photos, because he (the friend) thinks I'm crazy and thinks it could possibly be a mistake and he has also called me childish for using my fiancé's phone to talk to people (rare occasion). He (the friend) says I'm also controlling. (Even though he himself needs a signed permission slip from his girl to do anything). The question is, my fiancé wants to forgive and talk it out. I don't, I think what he said about me was wrong BUT the fiancé still wants him to be invited and possibly be in the wedding. I do not. Do I just give in and not associate with him or stand my ground? My fiancé agrees that what he said was messed up but he thinks it should all blow over. I need advice!!!! My man knows that if he wants to hang out with whoever, whenever it's fine by me! I just choose not to associate myself and idk if I really want him there after what he said when I've never insulted him.