Me and my boyfriend had a talk tonight which turned into an argument .. No I'm not working at the moment but I will soon. He has more than enough saved to move out so I thought it would be the perfect time to talk about moving out of his parents house... Then he hits me with the 'I need to help my mom out with bills ' ..... Isn't that what she has a husband for ? Aka his FATHER. Let's just say his family is ... Something else. I've never met people like them EVER. we were definitely raised differently .. My parents are the 'oh you want to move out on your own? Okay go ahead ! ' type and his are the 'oh you want to move out ? Well who's going to help with bills and help us with money' type ... Which I do not think is right at all. I'm not happy here but I'm happy with HIM and if he doesn't want to move out and put US first,  I don't think I want to stay. As much as I love him. This isn't how I want to raise my daughter .. My dad wants me to come back home already but I told him I'm waiting to see if my bc grows some and moves out, I want to give him a chance because I know he's in a tough situation ... But I mean lets be real we can't live with his parents forever ... Would you do this ? Would you give him the chance and if he doesn't seem to want to take it , would you move back in with your parents ? Like I said I'm happy with HIM, I'm just not happy with the fact that he feels like he can't move out because he has to 'help out' .... 😔😏😒😔😏