Relationship Advice

So, my BF and I are in a LDR. We don't text during the day at all. He doesn't even send a good morning message. I call him at 9:00 every night and we talk for about an hour. When it's time for him to go to bed, he will fall asleep on the phone. He wants me to say good and I love you first now. He used to do. He used to send me text messages in the morning. He claims it's because he doesn't like the expectations in relationships. Ladies, please tell me wtf I should do, or say, or feel.😕🙁☹️😣😖😭