Need hubbie feelings help.....

My husband and I have been married for a few months now. Before I continue this I just want to say that I love him very much. When we met I was with someone who I had been dating for 5 years and he had been dating someone for 6 years. However neither one of us could see happy futures with those people. We are very compatible and fell in love without meaning too. Well lately I've felt as if he compares me to her. Such as how I want to raise our child someday. I'm not an emotional person especially when it pertains to children. I would love our child but I know I would be a strict parent. His past so was the opposite. I feel like that's what he wants. I'm not going to change my personnal afflictions for his but it still makes my heart feel heavy when I can tell what he's thinking. I've been trying not to show it but at the same time it's getting harder because I don't want to have a child in less I know we can be supportive partners to each other throughout my pregnancy and the raising of our child. Please no comments about how I should have thought about this when I got together with someone who was already in a long term relationship. I'm fully aware of what I did and I don't regret it. I simply need some encouraging words to get me through this. It's really hurting me and I don't want it to hinder my marriage too.

Someone please respond. I can't sleep 😢