Best sex position to help pain?

Question

So, I tried losing my virginity recently and it hurt so bad I cried and we stopped. We couldn't even get past the tip. We started in missionary, which hurt pretty bad, and then we tried doggy, which hurt like hell. I'm starting to think I'm just tight and I'll just have to grin and bear it. My question is for anyone who has experienced pain during sex - what's the least painful position for you? Girl on top, spooning, doggy, missionary? I'm desperate to try anything to help it. It just hurts so damn bad.

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Losing your virginity should NOT hurt. If it hurts, it's because you're too tense or not turned on enough/lubricated enough. My first time didn't hurt at all & I was only 14 (not that that's a good thing). You shouldn't bleed either. If you bleed he's going too rough.

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Missionary + pillow under your butt to prop it up + a loooooot of lube! Try not to switch positions and stick with only one. I wish I knew this stuff on my first time 😂
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Doggy.it hurts no matter what position you do😁ive had sex 6 times and it still hurts me

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Well I'm gonna go against the majority and say that while sex isn't suppose to hurt, sometimes it does, like hell. For me it hurt so bad loosing my virginity, but that's also because my fiancé is around 8 inches D: the position that felt the best for me was missionary. We started out with me ontop because I wanted to be able to control the speed and in case anything g went wrong I could get off, but with me on top he could only get the head in because I was in so much pain. So he got ontop of me and just said "I'm sorry for this." Before I could reply he just kinda shoved it in and I yelped and he wouldn't let me move until it was all the way in.

So yeah that sucked. But after that sex didn't hurt anymore, it always felt really good! I think your first time will always be a little painful or at least awkward or tense. But it's okay, make sure that he loves you and you trust him and he will take care of you. Also, many girls are shaped differently, so what hurts for some girls may not hurt for you and vice versa. So my best advice would to be just go with it, start out in a position you like and tell your partner you need to switch if it hurts, do what feels the best and go from there:) ALSO.... MAKE SURE you are turned on and wet down there, use lube or bring some handy if it helps, foreplay, lots of foreplay, this will also help you to be more comfortable being sexual with him and warm you up. Best wishes to you and I hope it all goes well for you:)

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lube I'd going to be a good friend here. and make him pleasure you first. you should try orgasming before he penetrates you,it increases your pleasure and guarantees he won't just pass out after without making sure you also enjoyed your self. sex should never hurt unless there is something wrong

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Sex shouldn't hurt. If it hurts that bad, even with lube and proper stimulation, you might want to talk to your doctor. You could have a treatable condition that causes that pain.

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Girl on top may be a good option. You will be able control the depth and pace. Ease into it and take your time. If you're stressed/clenching in anticipation of pain, it probably will be a bit more painful. 😕

Maybe try girl on top w/o the expectation of penetration. Just use your partner's penis to stimulate your clit. If you get excited/relaxed and into it enough for penetration-go for it! But don't force it. Good luck👍

Best sex position to help pain?

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