What's wrong with me?

Question

So, I've been sexually active for many years. But I can NEVER get off unless I do it myself! (Rub myself during sex) my man doesn't like to have sex anymore because he feels immaculated by it. What should I do? It's causing a lot of problems for me and my boyfriend.

Answer

I get on top and ride him till I orgasm. It's the only way I can

Answer

Sounds like your man needs a lesson in clitoral stimulation. Just be kind and honest with him. Tell him you find him so manly and attractive that you would love to have sex with him, especially if he does it this way! And then tell him what you like! Easy as communication.

Answer

A lot of women have difficulty reaching orgasm.  It's not as easy for most women to get off as it is for men.  Your man should be more patient with you.  So much focus is placed on the male's pleasure and not the woman's.  Clearly nothing is wrong with you if you can orgasm via masturbation.   Maybe you need more foreplay?  Maybe you need a good combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation?  Maybe you need to try other positions or even sex toys.  Have you ever used a vibrator during sex?

What's wrong with me?

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