Ok, all the time my girl friends will be asking me how they should act, look, or reply around certain guys. I'm not very popular with men but I do hang out with them all the time, so I know what they're thinking, what they want, and what they actually care about.  And girl, 876% of guys DO NOT care if you send them an ugly/funny face selfie, they DO NOT care if you're not looking your very best, and guys DO NOT care if you just act like your usual self around them. Infact most guys really like it when you DO send them your weird selfies, when you DO look all natural, and when you DO act normal around them. This all especially applies if you don't look like one of those unrealistic hot models.