Husband issues... Vent session...
I don't even know what to do... For example, yesterday we went to a baseball game my mom had been watching my daughter while I was at work. My husband got off at 1:30 and told me he would be at my parents by 3. When I called him at 3 he was still 30 mins from my parents house.... I was pissed because don't tell me you're going to be some where at a specific time and not be there. I stick to people's word. Then I asked him to finish the laundry that we had at my parents house, he didn't finish due to being on phone and taking a nap. I asked him to put the clean baskets of clothes in his car; that didn't happen I then asked him one hour prior to leaving for the game to pack my daughter a sippy cup and more pull ups. That didn't happen either. I was livid. When I arrived at the game my daughter was being super bratty and he didn't help me AT ALL. I just wanted to sit down and relax, even if it was for a few minutes. After my daughter running around the whole game it was time or go and she was running down a hill I told her don't run but couldn't really do anything because I had her diaper bag and stroller. My husband starts chasing after her and then looks at my and says you just let her run! Like what you expected me to run after her with all this shit I have!? When he was hands free... After the game he's like we have to go back to your parents I forgot the baskets of clothes... I went back to my parents house and loaded up the clothes come to call my husband and he already was on his way home. He just expected me to get the stuff he forgot.... We got home and we fought, but I asked him more than nicely not to fight in front of my daughter... He was still picking fights. He then said very hurtful things and pretty much told me he didn't want to see me or be around me for a few days and that I should really think about how I treat him because I treat him like trash. This is just the most recent example... But theirs plenty more. Like the fact I've been asking him for over a month now to read articles/books anything about how to be a stepdad, how to be a be a dad, how to be a better husband. Still hasn't done so... But he has time to go to the CUBS game and spend money like no other. I just feel like I'm doing this all on my own and I don't deserve that, nor do I want to deal with this forever. The issues have been brought up multiple times and nothing has changed.. Any advise?? Thanks for reading my vent session.
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