Our December babies and the many excited family members 😩

So how are you guys feeling about the many excited family members that will want to visit your newborn during the prime of flu season? I have 2 children already from my first marriage but this is my now, fiancé's first and he's already so overprotective. So many of our family members are discussing staying with us for the Christmas holiday (Ofcourse to get hands on with our little one) and he's not too excited. 😩 This is also my mother in law's first grand do she hd soo many plans for the Christmas beak. Helpppp! Anyone else coming across any similar situation?