Discouraged

Jessica • 2 and a half years strong in my marriage. Even with ups and downs! He is my whole world.
My husband and I have a very bad sex life. We were both virgins when we got married 2 and a half years ago. Due to me not being able to take birth control pills. We have to use condoms. I want sex at night, he wants it early in the morning. We never seem to be able to get in sync with each other. 
It's so frustrating! Every other aspects of are marriage is pretty darn good.
Question: what's some cheap ways we can spice up our sex life? 
Also any creative date ideas to set the mood? Really need advice on this.