Husband Help!!

Kara
So this is my husband and I's first baby. He is having a hard time tollerating our LO when she cries (which she doesnt cry that much). He gets frustrated and he says when she cries its like a nails on a chalk board. I know he loves her and would never hurt her but some times he even tells her to shut up. I tell him to not to talk to her that way... Is there anything I can do to help him get through this. Men are not equipped with that motherly instinct.