When u wear a pad and someone try's to touch your arse

Evie
I wear pads because I find tampons hurt and I haven't got used to wearing them yet but it's a pain when you know someone ( this was a problem with my ex and I'm scared about it with this new guy) wants to touch your arse or might ( and I don't mind it ) but scared they'll be able to feel the pad... Anybody with me?