Another girl?

I originally posted a pic of the text but deleted it.... To start off let me let you all know I DO go through my husbands phone not out of distrust but out of habit, we only had one phone for a long time we shared it which ever one left the house took it.. Anyways we each have our own but he has a lot off apps I like to play while playing he received a text from a number that wasn't saved talking about work but the message prior to hers was him telling her, her ass looked good today?????? In what world is that okay? I mean as a married man how dare you??? My husband is very flirtatious I admit we've had are problems do to how flirtatious he is but im sick of it ... I barely get any complements from him unless I ask him... Im sick of this im literally crying while straightening my hair for our date nite today!! Im so mad.. Please no bashing