Hospital pictures

So two questions 1. Is it overly controlling that I don't want everyone taking pictures and posting them to social media like immediately after she is born? I told my mom and she said what!? I want to show everyone my baby ! I mean I get she's excited but I want to cherish moments with my daughter before everyone sees her and I want to be the one who shares her first. And 2. How much did your hospital pictures cost ? The professional ones if you got them ?