Very confused..

So I've been seeing this guy for just over a month now, and we started doing shit with eachother, we haven't had sex yet but I've given him hand and he's fingered me.. I just wanted to know is that too early? How long should I be waiting, should I wait till I'm in a relationship so I know he's not there just to play around? Please help cos it's been eating me inside 😪 btw I don't put out like that, he was the first guy I ever did that with, but does it sound like I'm being easy by giving him what he wants?