What do y'all think I should do?

Question

Almost 1yr ago I cosigned on a truck with my SO, the legalities never matter much so I never looked into any of it. Well fast forward my SO joined the military and hasn't even finished basic. We agreed while he was gone that I would take care of his truck; driving it, oil change etc. Last weekend I was helping my parents move some stuff and my SO's brother told their mom; why idk. Anyway she calls me up yelling at me that, the truck is not mine and ended up threatening me and saying she would make sure I pay for any damage that happened to the truck and that I was no longer allowed to drive.

I wasn't in the mood to handle all of it so I didn't really respond. Later after doing some research I found out that I'm legally registered as a co-owner on the truck and that I have to be on the insurance BC of that. In other words my SO and I have the same rights to this truck and his mom has no right to tell me what I can or cannot do in reference to this truck. 
I have to see her tomorrow and plan on talking to her but since she is also my landlady I'm afraid she won't be happy and decide to tell me I can move out.

Also she is making sure all of my SO's bills are paid, so I know she is looking out for her son but I'm really debating on not telling her yet BC I don't want the next phone conversation with my SO to be him getting irritated and upset BC his mom can't handle something and I don't want to cause any drama but I'm afraid it will.

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It's really up to you to figure out if you want to pick that battle, but if you're worried about her making you move out over something as small as that, I say start looking for somewhere else now. Rather you say something about this or not, it sounds like she has one of those personalities that just ALWAYS has SOMETHING to say....and if anyone says something back, it's like all hell has broken loose. 
You don't want that hanging over your head.

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I'd just let it die. It's yours too and she can't do anything about it. Just ignore it and address it later if it comes up. But I wouldn't look for an argument, especially with so many conflicting interests.

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I would tell her how it is. If she has the gull to be that much of a bitch to you when she doesn't know the whole story then she deserves to be corrected

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If you consigned you're an owner of the vehicle and have every right to be driving it. Before we were married my husband and I bought a truck together. We were both on the title and insurance. That truck was legally mine just as mush as it was his. I would just calmly explain that information and if she has a problem to take it up with her son.

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