Why have a child when you don't even want one? I don't like when some people ask other people to watch their child, and they try to take advantage by leaving the child for two days and turning off their phone. If you still want to go out and party, then maybe you should get on birth control, use a condom so you won't end up pregnant. God is blessing the wrong women with children. The ones who don't want kids always end up with kids, and the women who want kids struggle to have them.