Can i just have a pitty party for myself over here? Had my first baby June 2nd (yay!) after a really long and abnormally difficult labor and delivery (boo) and had excessive damage afterwords (thanks baby girl 😒 love you) and now its been ten weeks and after several visits to my OBGYN i found out i have not healed and have to have perineal revision surgery. 😩😩😩 i just want my body to heal like its supposed to so i can move on with life. And i REALLY miss having sex with my husband!!! Three months of abstinence thus far and an "unpredictable" recovery time after the stupid surgery 😔😩   Thanks for letting me vent and pitty myself for a moment. I know plenty others are worse off in many ways, i just needed to express my disappointment for a selfish moment. Anyone else been through this have words of encouragement?