How Long Were You And Your S/O Together Before You Got Engaged Or Married?

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My Boyfriend And I Are Considering Marriage. We Both Know That This Is What We Want To Do But My Family Thinks That We Should Wait A Little While Longer. We've Been Together For 5 Months Now. Is This Too Soon.?

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Sometimes you just know the person you're with is who you want to spend your entire life with. No one should tell you if you've been together "long enough." It is different for everyone.

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There is no such thing as too soon. I know people who got engaged after a few weeks and have been married over 20+ years I also know people who dated for years got engaged and got divorced. Everyone is diff and it depends on the two of you

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5 months is too soon, at this point it's still puppy love.

3 years is usually the recommended rule of thumb and you should definitely live together for at least a year before getting married.

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6 months!

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Whenever you feel comfortable is the best time. Hell you may get engaged at 5 months but you could stay in engaged for a year or two while planning it.

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Engaged after like 3 months married at like 4 months. Married almost a yr now.

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My parents got engaged after 6 weeks. They've been married for 21 years next month. My SO and I knew we wanted to get married within two months of us being together. If you know, you just know.

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5 months is not very  long.  What's the rush? Slow down and enjoy each other where you are now! Plenty of time to be a married couple.  
I've been with  my boyfriend for almost 4 years.  We have promise rings,  we want to get married but it hasn't happened yet.  It will,  but we're enjoying the moment.

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Too soon. You don't truly know the person you are with until 2-3 years after you've been together. You also need to spend at least one year living together to know if you are right for each other.

People who get married too early are irresponsible. Divorce is a nasty thing and it ruins lives. People who rush into marriage typically get divorced. It's financially and emotionally devastating. Be responsible about the biggest decision of your life! Marriage is not a fairy tale. It's a sacred bond between two committed, like minded adults with shared values and common goals.

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Two months! We just got engaged two weeks ago. My parents say it's too soon but I feel that when you know they are the one, it doesn't matter. Planning on getting married in two years though.

How Long Were You And Your S/O Together Before You Got Engaged Or Married?

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