We've decided to stop trying

Rebekah • Hubby and I have been together 16 years, married for 9! ❤TTC baby #1!!!!👪
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for awhile now but I'm still not pregnant. Could be that we don't have sex enough. Or it could be that we just don't have sex at the right time. (I've never taken an ovulation test so I don't even know when the "right" time is!)  But either way we've been having unprotected sex for about 6+ years now and nothing. So we talked the other day and decided we were going to "stop trying" and just have sex. And we had absolutely mind-blowing sex twice this week (and it happens to be my fertile week according to my apps) and my husband said "if this is what not trying feels like, let's not try from now on!!" I'm still going to log sex and periods just for my own remembering purposes. But I'm not going to obsess over trying to get pregnant! I've heard from numerous people that this has worked for them so we're gonna try it too! Please share your experiences😊