Those baby blues

3 weeks pp and feelin those blues. Husband thinks I'm a total bitch and a terrible mother because I'm irritable due to lack of sleep and I don't act all goo goo crazy like he does around the baby. I'm sorry but I run out of things to say to a baby that doesn't do much of anything yet. I find myself regretting having a baby because we didn't used to fight but now he annoys the shit out of me because he wants to fight me on everything simply because he is stubborn and likes to be right. I literally do change her more than he does because he has to sleep for work but when I say I change her more he naturally says no you don't. He won't do any house work or cook me anything. I just wish I could get some recognition instead of hate.