My husband called me prude

So i have been on birth control to try and regulate my hormones , so that we can get pregnant , and beside of that i have been spotting , for about a month, that brown ugly cm , and the other night my so asked to bd , and i said idk i feel kinda gross my boobes hurt and im spotting ... he respinded you always have an excuse.. what are you some kind of prude?! What prude,me, we jad sex literally yesterday , idky but th his has really got me frazzled on top of that we have argued a bit the last few days if he even knew all of what i have been trying to give him another baby maybe hed choose better words ... idk what do you think