What do you do when your boyfriends being like this...

chloe.x
The other day we were talking about the future and having a laugh and I mentioned baby, wrong move. You'd think after going through 1 miscarriage and a fucked up abortion we'd be able to have a convo about it, no. Everytime I mention a baby or anything he shuts it down, he doesn't plan on having kids any time soon yet he was the one who told me we'd have our own family within this year, clearly not. I feel like I've been lied to and betrayed. Whenever I get upset over my abortion he shuts it down, won't bother with me until I stop crying, I feel like he doesn't get it at all but when I try explain things it turns into an argument that's apparently my fault. I just need some advice please girls x