talk about sex

Long story short, I've been with my love for 7 months. He knows what I like but some days he does great foreplay and others, not so much. So for the past 4-5+ times we've had sex: he has been eating me until I get wet then quitting and initiating actual sex. So I haven't came. It honestly has bothered me, (he knows how to suck the soul out of my body but just didn't take the time to do it) and he asks "are you alright" when I seem like something is on my mind after sex but I say "I'm fine" because I don't want it to sound like our sex is what's wrong with me. Lol it's just awkward when I'm so horny still while he's finished and then I would rub one out after to finish sometimes but I don't even feel like doing that anymore and it makes me less excited about our sex. I still love the feeling of intimacy and it feels good during the act, but I've never cum from actual sex. So I need plenty of foreplay to cum. 😅how do I bring this up nicely? It's really bugging me and doesn't make me feel like cuddling him after sex because it's heavy on my mind so while he's like 🤗I'm like 😅...