We decided to not tell anyone about this pregnancy for a LONG time. We're both just done with the drama. We moved 6 hours away to get away from the bs and telling everyone would just make it horrible again.

I do feel bad because there are a few people I'd LOVE to tell but sadly they have big mouths.

So basically the only way anyone is going to know before the last couple months is if we go visit for Christmas.

I'd love to explain why in detail but that post would be a book. So, long story short....my family has mental stability and obsessive issues(fun childhood for me) and hubby's family is either "normal" or on so many prescription drugs they aren't invited to holidays anymore.

Anyone else out there who just doesn't want to tell anyone?