Giving up on love!

Is it just me or does anyone else ever feel tired of being let down by men. I mean I know most of you have awesome bfs or significant others. However, I just feel like I'm at the point where I have taken enough abuse, lies, rejection, and being used. I want to know what real mutual love feels like. Not just unrequited love. But were you ever at a point in life where you just weren't sure of you'd ever meet a nice guy who would show you how you should really be treated? Did you ever get to a low point where you began losing hope in the possibility of men and love? If so how the hell did you get yourself out of it?