My family is very judgemental. For example, my aunts and uncles from my mothers side wouldn't even hold my daughter when she was a newborn because we weren't married (got pregnant in February and married in April) .

My Mother is overbearing with advice and telling me how to raise my child, and my sister is finically stable (We arent so much) and I know they will be judge ultimately.

This baby was planned because I wanted them 18 months apart so they would go through school together and share a car. I am over the moon about it and CAN NOT WAIT! I am 10 weeks 4 days now.

Because of me hiding this and not wanting anyone to take my joy or excitement away, ultimately I am not as excited or loving to my baby growing.

I feel almost ashamed I don't feel I can share this.

What do you think?